Anonymous gender members.

**Rooi lippies** · 18-10-11, 22:01

Haai you all.

This truly local forum is one, weird, wonderful place.

Getting to know somebody entails getting to know - at some time during the early stage of the conversation, the person's gender too. Why? There is NO way that I want to talk to someone here about a woman-thingy, without knowing it is a woman. Period.

My husband vaguely mentioned something to me which happened to him a while ago...... About a "mistaken gender identity." I understand that odd dilemma he had only now. Knowing your gender will surely remove the awkwardness that one experience as a newcomer like me.

Am I making sense to you?

My I kindly ask those of you who have no names in your profiles and clearly "genderless" names..... Please, just very briefly lift you username-kilt for a split second - just to show us your real gender - and say if you are a lady etc. please?

They say somewhere in Hamlet or some play..... I think?: "To smile, or not to smile; in that lies the sweet answer......"

Like my husband always says: Are you a pussycat a slapstick or a hotdog? (Whatever that means?!

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Thank you so much.

RL

**staccato** · 18-10-11, 22:55

Welcome to the Nuthouse, it's real fun!

**booksallsizes** · 18-10-11, 23:16

Originally Posted by staccato

Welcome to the Nuthouse, it's real fun!

**catzcan** · 18-10-11, 23:35

**mellowred** · 18-10-11, 23:38

Oops, I misread the title here. I was sure I read androgynous gender members.

**Rooi lippies** · 19-10-11, 00:07

Anybody between you shy, funny ones with some family jewels in your bagging, ladies? Or do one spells it "laddies?"

Please, help us newbie's! Please.

**staccato** · 19-10-11, 01:22

Originally Posted by Rooi lippies

Anybody between you shy, funny ones with some family jewels in your bagging, ladies? Or do one spells it "laddies?"

Please, help us newbie's! Please.

Catzcan is the one with the jewels but her dog eats rings 'n things...

**Rooi lippies** · 19-10-11, 01:37

Originally Posted by staccato

Catzcan is the one with the jewels but her dog eats rings 'n things...

Eureka! At last... A man with some Balls. Hey?! Give Geoff a glass of fine Bell's - Damn it!

PS My man is sleeping and I'm sneaking on the forums!!! But not for any vile reasons!

**wayjen** · 19-10-11, 07:26

Hi Rooi Lippies. There is no harm in your husband coming out the closet if he has a gender identity crisis, we are all friends here.
I am Wayne cause my parents wanted a boy.

**retailrush** · 19-10-11, 08:03

Hi there - I am a girlie girlie and proud!!!

**lilythepink** · 19-10-11, 08:34

Well, with my user name I am obviously a girlie girlie, too, but The Beak (aka Chickeman) is a real male!

**booksallsizes** · 19-10-11, 09:18

Rooi Lippies... you sound really familiar... Have we met on the forum before?

**DestinysAngels** · 19-10-11, 09:18

Me too am a girlie, girlie, yippee, but must admit that it isn't too hard to tell which members are boy-pies, hahaha, looks like my spell checker has a crisis, just look how it spelled boy'tjies and which are girlies!

**MiemsJewels** · 19-10-11, 09:23

Ek is ook 'n meisietjie. Hoe weet ek dit? My baba-grow is pienk!

**lilythepink** · 19-10-11, 09:37

Originally Posted by Rooi lippies

Anybody between you shy, funny ones with some family jewels in your bagging, ladies? Or do one spells it "laddies?"

Please, help us newbie's! Please.

"Laddies" are usually males, RL. "Ladies" is the correct way to spell it if you are referring to the beautiful, sexy (sometimes old!) women on the forum! lol